Coming Back to Early

Yosef's father, Rava, sent him to stay in the academy.
They agreed for a fixed 6 years after his marriage to stay.
After 3 years nearing the eve of Yom Kippur...

Rav Yosef:	I will go home and see members of my household.
His father heard that he was coming. He took out a weapon went to meet him. (.7) Rashi adds: Because he wanted to give the impression that he was coming to fight.
Two possible versions of his father's reply:
(1) Father:	You have been reminded of your harlot? (.7) He is coming home to fulfill his desires.
(2) Father:	You have been reminded of your dove? (.8) Doves are faithful to their mates.

They got involved in a long disagreement over the matter.
So long that neither ate the meal before the Yom Kippur fast.